āIām really in my leek vibe right now,ā I tell Casey as we contemplate taking a chance on Leoās special which is a white pie with leeks, pancetta, garlic, and lemon juice. Weāre torn between this or going with one of her favorites, the margarita with pepperoni. After a chorus of what do you think? No - what do you think?, we land on the special along with the cobb salad (deliciously unexpected) and the focaccia with whipped ricotta.
Every time Iāve been to Leo, Caseyās been the main event. First was her wedding reception, two years ago, with her husband Brandon and their dog Bear who looked dapper as ever in a mini tux. And the second was this interview. I asked what she wanted to do for this conversation, where she wanted to take me, and since her favorite BLT at Court Street Grocer was now out of season, Leo was the obvious choice. She loves this place so much, part of me thinks she conjured it into existence.
Itās worth mentioning how we first met. Around 3 years ago, our paths crossed for a brief moment when I was still living in Texas. It was a blip. There was no reason that we should have left such a meaningful impression on each other, but I think our timelines intersected at a crucial moment.
Casey burst into my life with joy and determination. She saw what I couldnāt see in myself and truly believed in me. It wasnāt just that she liked who I was but she thought I had good ideas and could build something of my own.
From my perspective, the summer we met was a turning point for her too. I watched her make slow, deliberate steps in the direction of her future, temperature-checking along the way and asking herself if each opportunity was aligned with her internal compass. To see where sheās taken her newsletter, After School, and how her passion and knowledge made her an invaluable expert on trends, culture, and Gen Z - sheās an example of building a career, brick by brick, while maintaining an unwavering commitment to her voice.
Itās the same voice that was earnestly telling me all about how much she loves the gory X films and rumors swirling around Mia Goth as we stuffed our mouths with pizza. Honestly, thank god Iām the only one who has to hear the audio of this conversation because we are so into yapping, we arenāt pausing to properly chew our food. Youād be hard-pressed to find others in the restaurant as dedicated to chit-chatting as us.
We have another reason for literally and metaphorically getting lost in the sauce, weāre meeting on November 4th - the day before the election. We both decided not to vote early because we wanted to pepper election day with various errands to distract ourselves.
At the table, we recount what life was like when we found out Trump won in 2016. Casey was at a bar watch party in Greenpoint. She left early and rode the train alone. I was on the phone with my friend, sobbing until 3 in the morning until the race was officially called. I had a 7:30 am class the next day.
It felt wild crafting another election story we would recount in the future. Knowing that we would look back on this conversation with either affection or longing, made it seen special and daunting. While we sipped on La Paonnerie and discussed Young Thung, we knew we were making a core memory.
Which brings me to the main event ā¬ļø
Caseyās Wishlist
Thought Starter
Young Thug
I asked Casey if she had heard Tyler, the Creatorās new album. It debuted the previous week and she told me sheād given it a listen but it wasnāt taking up the most space in her mind.
Casey viewed the hierarchy of rap news in the first week of November like this:
Young Thug being released from prison. - āIt feels trite to say I love him because I love him sooo much. Heās been my top artist on Spotify wrapped for the past 5 or 6 years.ā
Lil Uzi Vert released a new album, Eternal Atake 2.
Tylerās CHROMAKOPIA
On November 1st, an unseasonably warm Friday afternoon, Casey was taking a walk through her neighborhood. As she recounts it, golden light streamed through the trees and peals of laughter could be heard as kids got out of school. It could not have been a more euphoric way to start the weekend - then her phone buzzed. A New York Times notification appeared on her lock screen saying Young Thug was going home.
āI genuinely almost started crying. His trial was Georgiaās longest running criminal trial. I truly wish I had a law degree to understand the nuances of it all because itās so complicated but they kept him in jail for three years!ā
To celebrate, Casey and Brandon went home and watched a bunch of Young Thug music videos. (This is where we got a little off topic and started talking about how much we love watching music videos on TV and Casey made a point telling me to watch Booty Drop by Doechii.) While music videos were playing, Casey turned to screenmaxxing as she tried to ingest any and all pieces of information about his release.
She wishes more people saw the statement he gave at the end of the trial because it highlights not only Young Thugās humanity but also the plight of others stuck in this oppressive system.
Iāve known Casey long enough that I know Young Thug will always make his way onto a list of her favorite things. š«¶
Iām in love with your daughter tiktok trend
She was obsessed with Years and Years back in 2015 when she worked at Teen Vogue. Every time the song, Breathe, popped up on her FYP she got a dopamine rush. It makes her giddy. The song + Brian Alvarezās ridiculous dancing + the trendās positive impact on the reception of his show, English Teacher, makes it something she canāt help but stan.
āThe power of social media is incredible, I love it.ā
I asked if she had seen English Teacher yet⦠and she hadnāt. I told her it was her homework to watch it and this remix to one of Brianās TikTok songs, which I promptly sang for her, loudly, in the crowded restaurant.
Product
Teddieās Peanut Butter
āI was a vegetarian for ten years and peanut butter was the most important food for me. It kept me alive in college and in my first couple of years in New York. It wasnāt even a pillar of my diet, it was my diet. Apples with peanut butter, bananas with peanut butter, carrots with peanut butterā¦ā I chime in that it sounds like the centrifugal force of her diet.
āItās the perfect food⦠as long as you donāt have a peanut allergy (lol). It has fiber, protein, it can go savory or sweet. People are afraid of the fat content but you need healthy fat.ā
āA couple of years ago, my brother asked if I had ever tried Teddieās. I hadnāt so he brought some the next time he visited from Maine.ā She loved it but it was hard to come by.
It recently came back into her life when she was ordering groceries for delivery. Whole Foods carries it in the city and she says that despite the ingredients being literally the same as the generic Whole Foods branded peanut butter, Teddieās tastes like the crĆØme de la crĆØme.
I asked what type of peanut butter is her go-to and she said, ānot just chunky, super chunky.ā
What is it: Super Chunky Peanut Butter
How much: ~$6
We were talking about how much apple slices and peanut butter would hit at this point in the night when I mentioned I wanted to pick some up after voting the next day. That launched us back into a conversation about the impending election, abortion rights, Christian influencers, and dangers of fire escapes that arenāt up to code.
This conversation was long and winding, with a lot off the record, but itās able to capture more than a listicle of the best restaurants or the hottest products online. Itās about sharing recommendations in the way youād normally receive them from a friend - sandwiched between pictures of someoneās baby and anecdotes from work.
Iām excited to continue this series next month for paid subscribers but Iām happy to give this one to you for free : )
devin! i love you so much!!! š